I've been again listening to Victoria Darbishire on R5live , a good broadcaster and likeable lady though she always assumes that everyone is the parent of school age children .
Yesterday she spoke on the 'phone to a woman who admitted to having taken amphetamines and drunk a bottle of whisky a day during some of her pregnancy , who said that her daughter's intelligence is above average - A pity that hers is'nt .
Today Victoria spoke with a man whose  nine year old son was taking the family's laptop to his room at night and accessing adult sites , having downloaded a 'dialler' which put the cost of that onto their 'phone bill .
If you do have young children and if you  are not very 'au fait' with computers for goodness sake at least put a windows password on your pc , and , as re. the dialler , every pc used to access the internet needs good , updating firewall software , as well as anti-virus . . ***********************
I'm feeling quite depressed , stuck , continually thwarted by whatever's wrong with me , and , since for whatever reasons I do'nt really feel able to , and/or do'nt want to follow the advice I've been given over and over again by well-meaning , sensible people it's difficult to see whatever a solution could be .