I'm SO-O-OOO-OH damn grateful to be living here rather than still in the h/assoc flat that my x-partner left me alone in , though I do feel a little hurt by something relating to neighbours here , which I'll not go into as
I do'nt want to seem petulant or even paranoid .
Separately from that I get the impression that a lot of ladies on this site(my friends excepted)
are very wary of men and think that any man inviting them to be his 'friend' here , or even just leaving comments on their 'blogs is after a sexual relationship with them , 'in the flesh' , or otherwise chatting 'live'
online explicitly , typing with one hand , or otherwise to exchange 'erotic' emails .  And  Yes I know there are a lot of morons on the internet , but , do'nt the ladies  realise that there is no need whatsoever to give out personally identifying or contact information , and that all being 'friends' here entails is the 'friends' posts being highlighted , and that , if someone 'oversteps the mark' it's simple to delete/block them ?
Anyway , I think that any reasonably not entirely unattractive woman can find interested men , admittedly if they are not too fussy , and that  , some men have a seemingly 'god given' gift of being able to 'pick-up' women , even if they are at least superficially not physically attractive .
Myself being cursed with a social 'shyness' , it's difficult because , apart from the obvious that if you can't put your personality across and if you do'nt ask you do'nt get , I do believe that male shyness is a turn-off
to most ladies .
And that having a lot of love to give to the appropiate person means very little : I'm not complaining ; If I were a woman I'd probably feel the same .
Earlier I was trying to watch a recording of the 1980 (?) movie 'The Howling' : What Trash , I could hardly stay awake , but am now watching and listening to Madonna's confession's london performance : that's more like it . . .